Veronica Monet, ACS

The Transformation Coach

I am so glad you are here! Be sure to explore the many gifts I have created for you. My Free E-book, podcasts and webinars; the Relationship IQ Test and of course my blog and my YouTube videos . . . there’s a lot here in the way of information but you are also sure to have a lot of fun! Some offerings are Free and others are paid. You decide what is right for you.

Here’s a little about me: I’m an Internal Family Systems (IFS) Trained Transformational Coach, Certified Sexologist, Anger Specialist and Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault Counselor. But I didn’t just take trainings and read a few books. I triumphed over a lot of challenging life circumstances and now I combine my education and expertise with deep empathy derived from personal experience. I have overcome incest, rape, domestic violence, anger issues and addiction.  I didn’t just survive, either. I took a path that led me to more joy than I ever thought possible.

If you want to dive a little deeper into the details about my journey, check out this page where you will learn more about my unique and sometimes controversial path to now.

Today I thrive and I am committed to helping others.

My particular genius?

I was born to receive and transmute the secrets of others into freedom and empowerment.

It’s natural for me to create a space where people can unburden themselves of what they’ve been carrying. And in the process I help them get truly free.

If you feel drawn to my gifts, I will also hold your vulnerability and secrets. I will help you to make amends, to reconcile with compassion and kindness towards yourself and others, to clean up what has caught you.

Because too often we live in reaction to our past and our parents’ past.

I can be your lifeline in the dark.

We all have secrets that eat us alive in our dark nights of the soul, things we have experienced that we don’t tell people about, things we may have done, that we don’t tell people about, places inside where we feel afraid. The “if you really knew me, you would hate me.” And those secrets have a way of eating away at us and destroying our capacity for vitality, aliveness or success.  We may have been harmed sexually and now we can’t enjoy sex. We may be so afraid of our temper that we never speak up for ourselves. This is what happens when we don’t integrate and become whole.

The path to true wholeness is to own all that we’ve experienced and have a genuinely safe place to reconcile it and heal from it. That path is profoundly soul transforming work. Because people feel safe with me, they feel free to share things with me that they don’t say to anybody else. Things they have never told anybody in their entire lives and that’s part of my genius.

Often, people don’t even tell themselves until they tell me and yet these things have a profound impact and have shaped them in deep ways. Being free of shame is NOT about whitewashing your past or pretending it didn’t happen. It’s about reconciling and owning and making amends and doing the inner healing so that you can have more power, more capacity for resourcefulness, aliveness, all of yourself mobilized for all that you love and all that you’re hear for in this life. It is about stepping into a reality that is not defined by your traumas or your fears of them, but where you are empowered by your past traumas. You are capable precisely because of what you have been through, if you know how to own it and use it.

How honest are you with yourself?

Schedule a session with me and let’s find out!

And if you are feeling a little shy, why not start with my video course? I invite you to enroll in my Exquisite Partnership Formula class. It includes 6 training videos, five game-changing Ebooks and six weeks of personal email coaching from me!

Or, if you are ready for a truly transformative coaching experience, let’s explore the possibility of working with me one-to-one. Click here to learn more about my private transformational coaching programs.